Eminem, the iconic rapper known for his explosive lyrics and unapologetic persona, has never been shy about sharing his personal life with fans. From his tumultuous relationship with ex-wife Kim Scott to the raw emotions he channels in his music, Marshall Mathers’ love life has often been a topic of fascination. But in a new interview with Vulture, the 52-year-old rapper is opening up in a way few expected—offering an unfiltered glimpse into his dating world.

The Struggles of Finding Love

Despite being one of the most famous and successful musicians on the planet, Eminem admits that dating hasn’t been easy. “It’s tough. Since my divorce I’ve had a few dates and nothing’s panned out in a way that I wanted to make it public,” he confesses. He goes on to explain that he’s not currently focused on romance, saying, “Dating’s just not where I’m at lately.” It’s a candid moment that humanizes the superstar, showing that even someone with his fame and fortune can struggle with finding meaningful connections.

Swiping Right and Going Beyond
When it comes to finding potential dates, Eminem’s approach may surprise you. While most people might expect him to be surrounded by adoring fans or at glamorous Hollywood parties, the rapper reveals that he’s more likely to be found swiping on dating apps. “I also used to go to strip clubs,” he adds with a hint of humor. “What can I say? Going to strip clubs is how I was meeting some chicks. It was an interesting time for me.”

It’s a candid admission that shows even a man of Eminem’s stature sometimes relies on simple, everyday methods to meet people—Tinder being one of them. And while he jokes about using Grindr, the man-to-man dating app, it’s clear that Em’s sense of humor and self-awareness are always present, even when discussing something as personal as dating.

A Rocky Road to Romance
Eminem’s history with relationships, particularly with Kim Scott, has been complicated, to say the least. His music has often reflected the pain and anger he’s experienced, with his fiery lyrics frequently targeting his ex-wife. “I’ve had my share of experiences with women where I’ve felt a certain way and been mad enough to make songs about those feelings,” he admits. The controversial lyrics, which some have criticized as misogynistic, are part of his legacy—but Em explains that his motives weren’t always malicious. “All the bulls— around that—I’m not making an excuse, but the mentality that I’ve had since I was rapping at open mics was that you better have s— that’s going to get a reaction or you will not be accepted when you’re on the mic,” he says. “Your first, second, third, and fourth line better grab attention or you’re done.”

That raw, attention-grabbing attitude, Em acknowledges, has sometimes led him to go too far. But in his later years, he’s more introspective, understanding that his past relationships and the music he created about them were shaped by intense emotions and a desire to provoke. While he hasn’t exactly found the love he’s looking for, it’s clear that Eminem is reflecting on his past and evolving as both a person and an artist.

Embracing Single Life
Despite the ups and downs of his love life, Eminem seems at peace with his single status. “Am I lonely? No, I’m good,” he tells Vulture with a smile. It’s a testament to his growth that he’s able to embrace solitude without feeling the pressure to be in a relationship just because of his fame.

While we may not know exactly what the future holds for Eminem in terms of romance, his willingness to open up and laugh at himself provides a refreshing change. The man who once rapped about his personal struggles with such ferocity is now a bit more introspective, acknowledging the role that love—both the good and the bad—has played in shaping his music and his life.

So, would you swipe right on Slim Shady? He may not be actively searching for love right now, but based on his sense of humor and openness, it’s clear he’s not afraid to try new methods—whether in the world of dating apps or beyond.